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What if we never lost our child-like wonder?

Image by Margot RICHARD on Unsplash

What if we really knew our purpose?

What if we are living in a computer simulation and nothing is real?

What if we found out that most everything we believe to be true is really not?

What if the world is destroyed by some cataclysmic event, man-made or natural?

What if we discovered fear is the most effective motivation and fear is (most often falsely) manufactured by those who don’t have our best interests in mind?

What if we really knew how this incredible dirt suit the Creator encased our souls in for the time we spent on Earth really worked?

What if Earth isn’t the only place in the universe that supports intelligent life?

What if we really are eternal souls reincarnating over and over and over again?

There are hundreds of questions I could ask here, many of which would sound to most readers like I’ve lost my marbles.  But the truth is that I am an intensely curious person.  I want to know how and why most things work.  So, I’m asking questions like those above.

For most of my life, I learned things from school, parents, church, and culture and simply accepted them as truth.  I marched to the same drum as others in my little world bubble.  Generally, most of us grow up in a very homogeneous environment.  We think we know what’s going on and how the world works.  We learn to function in that world, fit into that world, believe we know all there is to know in that world.  Questions like the ones above rarely occur to us.  It’s the old adage that we don’t even know what questions to ask.

Then many of us venture outside that little world bubble we grew up in and are amazed at the things we never heard of, saw, knew existed.  That bubble we exist in gets larger and more complicated, more exciting, and yes, often scarier.  The ways of the bigger world are different than the ways of our growing-up world. 

I remember the first time I was introduced to tacos.  It was certainly after I was 18 and had left my hometown.  It was a surprise to me that meals weren’t required to consist of a meat, potatoes, and a vegetable.  What if I could just eat an apple and cheese for dinner?

I also remember that the only prejudice I developed in childhood was against non-Catholics.  There was no racial prejudice.  I didn’t personally know anyone who wasn’t a European heritage Caucasian until I was a young adult.  No one talked about their sexual preferences so there was no reason to judge those, and in my middle class, midwestern hometown of 30,000 people, there was little income disparity so no class prejudice either. 

It wasn’t until Randy and I were married a few years and he rejoined the Air Force where I really was awakened to a much broader, different world than the one I’d grown up in.  Still though, we were busy making a life.  Full-time jobs in another homogeneous environment (the United States Air Force) kept us too busy to question some of the things we encountered in this broader, different existence.  Learning new things was interesting and adventurous, but we still took everything at face value.  We simply believed what we were told by new authority figures, like ministers, TV anchorpeople, famous people (no matter how or why they were famous), bosses, and government officials at all levels. 

During the “Trust But Verify” years of Ronald Reagan, which just happened to coincide with the “invention” of the world wide web, we started to research and confirm some of the things we were being told.  We began to learn that while some things were substantially true, often what we were led to believe was just that, LEADING us to conclude something it was convenient for “them” to have us believe.  We did believe it, still too busy making a life to do much digging for truth and accuracy, or even the other side of the story.

You all probably remember Paul Harvey’s The Rest of the Story.  It premiered in 1976 as a radio series and was wildly popular.  During the trust but verify years it was instrumental in helping me remember that there’s ALWAYS another side to a story.  Having taken journalism classes I (slowly) learned to ask, what are they not telling us about this?  Why would this have happened in this way?   Why would they present this information in this way? What’s in it for them? What do they want us to do, think, believe about this? What if there was information held back about this situation that would change how we react to it?

It took most of my adult working years to develop those habits.  But it wasn’t until I was retired, had all the knowledge of the universe at my fingertips (though the internet), and plenty of time to research things, that I really began to question what I think I know. 

And, as I’ve said often on this blog, the more I know I don’t know, the more I know I don’t know. 

Now, I am an avid “What if” questioner.  And nothing, absolutely nothing, is off the table for me to consider.   Even things I know I’ll never definitively know the answer to.  Bu I want to know as much as I can so I am able to draw my own conclusions.

There are three main areas that have captured my attention in the past few years.  I’ll write about them in my long posts over the next three weeks. 

First is the corruption of our government.  I am convinced that for the most part, the concept of truth, justice and the American way has been perverted beyond recognition.  This is not political in that one party or another is to blame.  Corruption is a human condition that has wormed its way into governments of all levels in the United States of America. 

Second is the motivations of the medical, pharmaceutical, and food industries.  God made the human body to function and heal itself.  The pursuit of money in these industries has destroyed our body’s ability to keep itself relatively healthy during the time it is alive on Earth. 

And third, is the eternal nature of our souls.  Raised Catholic, and having been a Christian all my life, I believe our souls are eternal.  But the Bible is vague on where those souls are, and what they do, after our earthly bodies are done and gone.  Different denominations believe different things.  Can we really know? 

I realize that my “what if” questions and the upcoming topics for this blog may jar some of you.  Though I try to avoid controversy, the three issues I mentioned above affect the entirety of my daily life these days.  And it’s time I confront them head on.  You’re welcome to come along.

P.S. Randy and I are leaving on our Epic 50th Anniversary Grand Adventure Road trip in about a month. After the next 3 Tuesday posts I mentioned above this blog will become, for the time we’re on the road, a travelogue of sorts. I’ll post on an irregular schedule over the next 8-12 weeks what I think you might be interested in as we celebrate our 50 years of (mostly) blissful marriage.

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7 responses to “What If…”

  1. Sandra Fager Avatar

    Looking forward to tackling these ‘issues’ along with you Laurie! As you said, some things we will just never know-but we can certainly have deep suspicions! The sense of ‘Deja vu’ when I enter a room that I could not possibly have ever been in leads me to the theory of reincarnation-the eternal soul you speak of may inhabit more than one earthly body🤷🏻‍♀️Looking forward to your opinion!
    23C

  2. Sandra Fager Avatar

    Looking forward to tackling these ‘issues’ along with you Laurie! As you said, some things we will just never know-but we can certainly have deep suspicions! The sense of ‘Deja vu’ when I enter a room that I could not possibly have ever been in leads me to the theory of reincarnation-the eternal soul you speak of may inhabit more than one earthly body🤷🏻‍♀️Looking forward to your opinion!
    23C

    1. Laurie Grathen Avatar

      Yes, this “what if” journey has been interesting, for sure. Changed my perspective on so many things.

  3. Kristine Barnes Avatar
    Kristine Barnes

    Love the photo!
    Dirt suit – haha – dust to dust …
    I agree with everything you said and look forward to journeying with you. 😊
    Thanks Laurie!

    1. Laurie Grathen Avatar

      You never heard dirt suit before? Learning that what I believed to be true has only, primarily, been that I haven’t heard the rest of the story or the other side of the argument has been revelatory. It’s actually pretty exciting to learn so much in this lifetime.

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    Av

    We lived in Soviet union and knew it was communism our phones were tapped we all had a dossier files on all of us etc it was the norm and expected. We believed it was not like that in America bc America was known to be a capitalist country where private life and privacy was respected. We moved here calling it a big escape. To know have learned that there is no privacy at all, before and especially after 9/11 it has become a police state for the sake of safety …where your moves are monitored once you step outside and I would not be surprised that phones are tapped too…but during covid everyone was locked down for safety no personal movement all for the sake of safety…and other things that we took for granted and believed the integrity of elections and the legitimacy of the the candidates started to Wayne during the 2020 elections…for the sake of safety with open borders and children trafficking we started to realize that the idea of America being a capitalist country is only a myth but a covert and very much undercover communist country….hard to realize that most ppl who escaped Soviet union just like us are still believing how free and capitalist America is way better than Russia now under a tyrant Putin. Hard to believe that the reputable news channels in America would lie about all this and focus how bad Russia is rather than shining a light on what has become or always was America. An egregious PsyOp on American people to believe that looking there not here is way more important so that the people themselves willingly give up their rights to a police state. Either way I am happy where I ended up and how my life has been and even if I wasn’t all my life a religious person not even now I am a believer of God and that our personal actions are on us and for God to deal with us …like a a karma of sorts so I became fearful of the judgment day I always wonder if ppl we knew who have died know and see our actions and that guilt and shame is what I am more fearful of and that is the only thing that rules my life Gods judgment day over my actions so I try to do what is right so I dont shame my dad who passed away but prob would be interested to see what kind of person I have become …questioning everything and being fearful of Gods judgment. I think that is all constant the rest can change at any time or any selected government even if one thinks they are in a protected democracy or constitutional republic…most ppl could be bought or coerced into something bc they do not have that fear of Gods judgment. Some things i think about …but probably not worse a dime to anyone else. Lol

    1. Laurie Grathen Avatar

      Seeing what is happening from your perspective, having lived under Communism, is eye opening. How this all unfolds is of great interest to me as I’m sure it is too you, too. Living with our eyes wide open is a hell of an advantage, though, isn’t it?

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