True Wealth is Control Over Your Own Time

Category: Musings

  • Look, Ma! No Bra!

    Look, Ma! No Bra!
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    Reading Time: 5 minutesI was born in 1954 so was an impressionable 14-year-old when, as a symbol of women’s liberation, a “bra burning” protest took place during the 1968 Miss America pageant in Atlantic City.   There’s no evidence there were any bras actually burned, but women of all shapes, sizes, ethnicity, and (presumably) religions, did… Read more

  • Sneaky Fridays and Blood Pressure

    Sneaky Fridays and Blood Pressure
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    Reading Time: 2 minutesBoy am I out of blog writing practice. I rolled out of bed this morning about 8:30 after an excellent night’s sleep and began preparing to go for a walk. Randy came in and said, “It’s Friday, isn’t it? We both need to put up a blog post.” Damn! I wondered what… Read more

  • My Breasts Are Trying to Kill Me

    My Breasts Are Trying to Kill Me
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    Reading Time: 5 minutesIn February I had my annual mammogram.  When I was done, the technician came in and said the radiologist who had looked at my films said everything looked fine and they’d see me next year.   Randy’s sister, Kristine, was visiting and accompanied me to the Breast Center in Venice so we picked… Read more

  • Crappy Service

    Crappy Service
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    Reading Time: < 1 minuteHave you ever noticed that service in a restaurant is really lousy when the restaurant isn’t very busy? Randy and I think this is almost universally true. It’s interesting to us because it’s counterintuitive. You’d think that when servers aren’t busy they’d give you more, not less, of their attention. But… Read more

  • Grandkids Rule…

    Grandkids Rule…
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    Reading Time: 5 minutesNow here’s a topic we don’t talk about much in this blog.  Randy and I don’t have kids, so it follows, logically, that we’re completely devoid of and inexperienced with grandkids.  My mom once had a T-shirt that said, “If I’d known grandkids were so much fun, I would have had them… Read more

  • A Swelling of Pride

    A Swelling of Pride
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    Reading Time: 2 minutesLee Greenwood’s iconic song Proud to Be an America always brings a lump to my throat, especially this version, linked here. Even watching it again now raised goose bumps on my arms. As a citizen and veteran of what is still the greatest country on earth, there hasn’t been, for the last… Read more

  • It’s a REALLY Small World, After All!

    It’s a REALLY Small World, After All!
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    Reading Time: 5 minutesRandy and I drove down to Naples last Friday to attend the weekly Happy Hour at my sister Lisa’s condo complex.  There are only 82 units, about half are full-time residents, but it’s “season” in Florida so Happy Hour included a lot of snowbirds.  We wouldn’t normally drive down to Naples for… Read more

  • A Year From Now

    A Year From Now

    Reading Time: 5 minutesI had lunch last week with my Airplane Girls.  As is true with any group of friends, each of us is going through something in our lives that upends the status quo and forces change that we aren’t particularly comfortable with.  One woman just passed the year anniversary of losing her beloved… Read more

  • It’s Tax Season

    It’s Tax Season

    Reading Time: 4 minutesI spent the last 20 years of my working life keeping track of other people’s money.  In fact, I’m still doing that as I have two micro-jobs, one doing the sales tax accounting for a single retail home décor store back in Missouri, and another keeping up with the bookkeeping for a… Read more

  • Who Needs the F-Word?

    Who Needs the F-Word?
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    Reading Time: 5 minutesI just finished one of the best books I’ve ever read, and one of the worst books I’ve ever read.  They had several things in common.  They were both written by female authors in their early forties.   The writing was well done, clever, and moved the reader through the story well.   In… Read more